Jan 24, 2016

14 Pet Peeves of Cops To Know About in 2016

Everyone has behaviors, people, phrases or actions that irritate the living crap out of them. Cops, of course, are no different. We experience particular behaviors so regularly that they easily develop into full blown pet peeves that we disdain with the passion of 1,000 suns.  The list could be longer, but here are 14 of the things that you should be aware will most likely make a cop want to call down meteors from the sky:

Jan 18, 2016

Being Killed is Not a Job Requirement

It is true that officers have to reconcile that evil exists; it's a reality that an officer will see violence. It's a reality that officers are targets because many people do not want to be detained for their actions and some simply despise the badge. However, officers do not sign up in order to die. They sign up to fight and keep evil in check so that all of us, including themselves, can live.

Jan 11, 2016

But What Can I Do?

So here lately I've been privy to, and part of, many conversations regarding the current state of affairs in law enforcement. My immediate co-workers and even my supervisor hold forth with astonishing regularity on how much longer we each have until retirement (my boss can punch out any day, but needs the money). We all daydream out loud about the different career choices we could have, should have, would have made if only we'd have known how things would turn out. This conversation will happen again, probably contemporaneously with yet another sensationalized article involving a police officer, a shooting and an “unarmed black man”.

Jan 7, 2016

Black Lives DO Matter

Black Lives Matter. That's it. I have no caveats, no 'but...', no exceptions. Every black life matters. Now, I've been hearing this for a year, usually in hashtags, or screamed at me by protestors. Usually, that's all the protestors say. That's what they want, they want black lives to matter. Well? They can stop protesting now, because they got what they want. They want black lives to matter, and they do.

Dec 31, 2015

The Pendulum of Popular Opinion

So the Washington Post published a couple of articles in the last week, one entitled “The Cops Who Keep Killing” (as opposed to the more realistic but slightly less inflammatory title of “The Cops Who Have Been in Multiple Justified Shootings”). The other article was given the headline “A year of reckoning: Police fatally shoot nearly 1,000”. The gist of the first article is that the Post found 55 officers across the entire United States of America that were involved in shootings in 2015 that had (gasp!) been involved in prior deadly force incidents in their careers. They go on to cite the media's favorite anti-cop policing “expert”, one Dr. Geoffrey Alpert of the University of South Carolina, whose sterling academic credentials provide him a soapbox for weighing-in against cops in news stories about police pursuits and use of force.

Dec 26, 2015

We Are All Steve Harvey

On Sunday December 20th, 2015, TV Host and personality Steve Harvey had a bad night. By now, everyone knows that during the crowning moment, quite literally, of the Miss Universe Pageant, Mr. Harvey announced the wrong winner, causing what became quite the awkward moment. Despite doing what he little he could to recover, the initial shock began to echo around social media and it gained steam...quickly. From memes to comments of scorn and outrage, the world quickly turned on Steve Harvey, who ultimately did something each of us do regularly: made a mistake.

Dec 24, 2015

All is Calm: A Merry Christmas to Our First Responders

While their families are home eagerly waiting to celebrate the holiday's with their first responder, the world still needs them. We all need them. So thank you to all first responders from Humanizing The Badge. Please share with those whom you want to thank for their service during Christmas.

Dec 4, 2015

Eighteen Things Not To Say To A Cop

Recently, on our Facebook page and on my Instagram, we asked people to come up with things "not to say to a cop". It resulted in some pretty funny scenarios and comments if you wanna take the time to read them all (I know we did).  I took a few of those and complied a quick list of eighteen things not to say to a cop and responses I may or may not have used when they are said to me out on patrol:

Nov 26, 2015

A Police Wife's Letter to Family: Thanksgiving is Not About Us

Today, social media will be filled with pictures.  The pictures will consists of plates of stuffing and mashed potatoes.  You'll see images of sisters and brothers who have not seen each other in several months or even years.  You'll see grandparents swooping up their latest addition to their families while spoiling them rotten.  There is always that huge part of you that enjoys seeing the images and then there is a part of you that feels a tinge of jealousy.  

Nov 23, 2015

The Right Kind of Monday Morning Quarterbacking

The phrase "Monday Morning Quarterback" carries with it a negative connotation and it's usually for good reason. You see, when we watch our favorite athlete from the comfort of our sofas, never having played the game at that level, it's quite easy to critique how a play was executed or how a split second decision was made that we didn't like.  And no one wants to be critiqued by people who lack the experience, pressure or perspective that one can only have by being "in the game."

Nov 14, 2015

What It's Like To Be A Cop's Daughter In 2015

My dad's job probably doesn't entail the same things that most teenager's dads do for a living. Because my dads a cop. And in 2015-- you don't want to be associated with cops. It took me months and months to even work up the courage to post something like this. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not ashamed of my dad or what he does. Because I know for a fact that he is just and he is kind and he takes care of people. But every day I see something new on Facebook or the news about police brutality or things the police officers did wrong

Nov 8, 2015

He Didn't Deserve To Die Like That

Many people have been asking for our take on this at Humanizing the Badge and honestly as I've looked at the information available, I'm left with more questions than answers.
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